<b>Isingeniso</b><br />Ubungeke yini uthande ukwazi i-sauce eyimfihlo emshadweni ojabulisayo nohlala isikhathi eside, ikakhulukazi kuleyo mibhangqwana eshadile ejabule eye yazuza ubuciko bokuhola ubuhlobo obujabulisayo?<br />Sethula lezi zihluthulelo zomshado ophumelelayo ezizokusiza ukuthi uxazulule izinkinga zomshado, ukhiphe izikhali ozakwethu ongqubuzanayo futhi zikusize udale futhi ugcine umshado ophumelelayo.<br />Wonke umshado unezikhathi ezimnandi nezingezinhle. Nakuba kungase kuzwakale kuyinto evamile, izinselele zingokwemvelo ekuwohlokeni nasekugelezeni kokuphila komshado.<br />Izikhathi zokucindezeleka, isithukuthezi, nokungakhulumisani kahle kuyingxenye yesifundo.<br />Umshado udinga umsebenzi.<br />Umshado uyawudinga umsebenzi, futhi njenganoma yini enye ekuphileni, kufanele wenze umsebenzi ukuze uvune umvuzo. Kodwa umsebenzi womshado awufani nokuhlanza indlu yangasese nokukhipha udoti.<br /><b>Ingxenye yokuqala</b><br /><b>Usho ukuthini umshado ophumelelayo kuwe?</b><br />Umshado uwukuhlangana kwemiphefumulo emibili, nokho incazelo yomshado ophumelelayo iyehluka kumbhangqwana. Ayikho incazelo ecacile yomshado ophumelelayo. Nokho, nazi ezinye izincazelo ezivamile zomshado ophumelelayo.<br /><b>1. Ukuba nomfazi omuhle</b><br />Kwabanye abantu, umshado ophumelelayo usho ukuba nenkosikazi enhle. Kwabanye abashadayo, owesifazane oqotho ozonakekela umyeni wakhe futhi amsekele kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, yikho okwenza umshado uphumelele.<br /><b>2. Ukukhulisa umndeni oziphethe kahle</b><br />Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi umshado uwukuhlangana kwabantu ababili nomndeni. Bakholelwa njengesakhamuzi somphakathi, futhi badinga ukukhulisa izingane zabo ngokuziphatha kahle.<br />Bakholelwa ukuthi uma bekwazi ukukhulisa izingane zabo ngendlela efanele, umphakathi uyoba nabantu abangcono, futhi kubo, kuyincazelo yomshado ophumelelayo.<br /><b>3. Enokuxhumana okuphumelelayo</b><br />Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ukukhulumisana okucacile nobungane kuyizihluthulelo zokuphumelela komshado. Laba bantu bayaqiniseka ukuthi ukukhuluma bodwa ngaphandle kokugodla nokungafihli lutho kwenza umshado uphumelele.