The first thing to remember is not to be attracted to people who always disappoint you.
 You usually notice how bad you felt when you were done with the man who always sat you down.
 If you immediately felt better than you left it, it means that you have your self-esteem again.
 If your self-confidence is very low, you may be attracted to men you don't like too much.
 At least you have something in common, right?
On the other hand, if you have low self-esteem, ask yourself why and what to do about it instead of turning to a man who confirms your worst ideas.