The reason for the contradictions is that we are often attracted to the person who has the quality or the ability to do something that we wish or could do.
 At this point, we are looking at the person's strengths rather than their weaknesses.
However, we must remember that any force is likely to have a corresponding weakness.
If we realize these weaknesses, they can irritate us.
Feeling attracted to someone with a different personality can be wonderful, but in the long run, you both have to overcome a few.
The older you are, the less victory you have to win after your marriage.