If you&rsquo;re like most of us, you and your partner have been going along having a regular day and then suddenly, you find yourself in a disagreement. You have no idea how you got there. And, even more problematic, you have no idea how to get out.<br /><br />Then, you innocently add insult to injury. You each engage in a futile effort to tell each other what the other one said. At this point, your &ldquo;disagreement&rdquo; begins to escalate into an argument or, worse, a full-into attack, defense, and counterattack. Round and round it goes, damaging your relationship, until one of you gives up, exhausted and frustrated.<br /><br />The truth is that you weren&rsquo;t speaking the same language. Yes, you were using the same words, but they didn&rsquo;t mean the same thing. While words might have a generally accepted meaning, each one of you brings your own interpretation to them. Sort of like having a regional accent.<br /><br />This is a book that will help learn, how, when and where to pinpoint and act on to lead a lasting marriage.